Choice not Chance: Simplifying Success

Genius is a Choice: Why Your Greatest Strength Lives in Tension

Marie Chindamo Season 2 Episode 18

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Host Marie Chindamo welcomes Michele Jennae, creator of the EDG Butterfly Map and founder of Everyday Genius X365, to discuss how brilliance is inherent in everyone but often dimmed by rigid schools and workplaces. Michelle shares leaving a government job after seeing capable people “calcify” into conformity, and explains her framework for reclaiming genius through polarities—paired tensions like certainty and wonder, structure and flow, visibility and solitude—illustrated as butterfly wings that must work together for “flight.” They explore how perfectionism often comes from fear and self-talk, how workplaces can suppress originality, and why self-awareness helps us understand others. Michelle outlines eight “genius tensions,” describes integrating VIA Character Strengths, and notes practices like embodiment and awareness to rebound from “lower wing” states. She defines success as embodying one’s idiosyncratic genius and staying aligned with intention.

 

00:00 Genius Within Us

00:31 Show Intro

00:53 Meet Michelle Jennae

03:55 Walking Away From Work

08:24 Culture Shift After Covid

09:56 Butterfly Map Explained

14:19 Movement Not Types

17:14 Leadership And Self Talk

20:14 Why Brilliance Gets Suppressed

25:00 Host Assessment Results

27:32 VIA Strengths Overview

30:16 Practices To Stay Connected

32:40 Client Transformations

33:27 Lower Wing Recovery

34:14 Awareness Creates Choice

35:11 Perfectionism and Projection

38:32 Reframing Fear and What Ifs

41:52 Defining Success Today

46:36 Blue Flame Genius

48:25 Seeing Genius in Others

51:35 Self Awareness and Diversity

54:27 Staying the Course

58:34 Closing Reflections

Connect with Michele Jennae

https://www.edgx365.com/meet-michele-jennae/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelejennae/

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